Sunday, July 25, 2010

End of Brian

OK, Brian just ended it with me because he didn't think we had enough chemistry and logistically we lived too far apart. I was going to try and argue with him but I am not going to. I think he's too fat and he has a 4 year old son. So no Great Adventures this Fri. I might see if my bro wants to go to Great Adventures on Fri.

No one else has contacted me on the dating sites so that's a bummer. I joined match, eharmony and okcupid. I might rejoin plentyoffish.

I seem to max out at two dates with a guy and then they end it. Hope I break out from that. Maybe I'll just post on craigslist on the long-term dating section. That's how I met Rich and I dated him for like 2 months.

Oh I'm going to Atlantic City Wed to Fri morning, that'll be my vacation this year. Short trip. Plus going to Boston weekend of August 7-8. I need to focus growing my business. Maybe I'll take a break from dating.

Great Adventures and Atlantic City

So Brian's taking me to Great Adventures next Friday. I have to go to Newark at noon and he'll drive there. He also said he'll pay for admission. It'll be $25 each since there's a special deal on Coke Cans. Mon-Fri buy one get one free.

Then my bro wanted to go to Atlantic City on Wednesday so I might go there for the second time in my life. The first time I went there I was 19 and I couldn't gamble since they carded me. I've only since gambled in one poker game (lost when I went all-in). That'll be my mini-vacation. I'm also headed to Boston August 7-8 to visit Helen, she might be moving from Boston to somewhere else because Nick, her husband, has to find a place to do his post-doc.

I bought these two pairs of shoes, one Franco Sarti sandals and this other Taryn Rose open-toed peep shoes. Both used and a bargain! Spent 20 on the sandals and 60 on the shoes. I also bought a dress for $15 so I got three items for less than 100! I love eBay!

Friday, July 23, 2010

New relationship

I started dating this new guy named Brian last Friday. He's a divorced dad of a 4 year old son named AJ.

Anyways, he ended up really liking me and calling me and texting me to the point where I called him the night before we were supposed to meet on our second date and told him he was acting a bit psycho. So he broke up with me and I sent him a nasty email calling him fat. Then he called me back later that night and still wanted to meet the next day.

So I met him for the second date and we had some fun. He is a public aid defense lawyer so he got out of court early and picked me up at 2:30pm where we went to the Met and checked out the Picasso exhibit. Picasso is his favorite artist. Then we went to KumSangGan restaurant (Korean) in Flushing. He came over and watched part of the Mets game before he left for NJ.

I really want to go to Great Adventures and he said he'll check his schedule to see if he can take off early one day next week. He said he might take Friday off, but then there's a chance he'll bring AJ and I don't want to meet his son quite yet. Maybe if I'm still dating him after three months, I'll be ready to meet his kid.

He also said I can pick an expensive restaurant for our next date. My friends have been weighing in. So far Union Sq Cafe is on the top of that list. I think Blue Fin is too expensive. I shd make him take me to Candle 79 and I can run into that cute bartender. Hahaha.

Anyways, I'll post again after the Great Adventures date or the next date. I think he really likes me so this is the first time a guy is chasing me. We'll see how long this lasts.

Saturday, July 10, 2010

End of Davey

After I tried breaking up with him last week he broke up with me passively this week. Oh well I wasn't in love with him.

He was unresponsive at the end. I can't deal with that and it drove me nuts.

I am looking on match and okcupid. I left plentyoffish because I met Davey on that and that was a strange site.

No new prospects. Off the birth control pills. I lost a 6 month supply of birth controls on the subway so will abstain from having sex without condoms for the next 5 months.

Anyways, I'll update this as soon as I start cooking more. I'm making linguini with real clams next Monday. Have to get the clam meat cans next Monday from Whole Foods.

I'm operating on one hour of sleep because I need to be somewhere at 7:30AM.

Sunday, July 4, 2010

trouble in paradise...

I'm not so sure when David's moving to NYC so I kinda wanna break up with him. I never wanted a long-distance relationship. I mentioned it to him last week but he assured me he'll make it easier for me by visiting me more often. So instead of four weeks, he's coming in three weeks to see me. I am not sure if I can do this.

He's also 12 years older than me. That's old.

And he has no hair.

So all those three factors plus the fact that I'm not falling for him and it's been two months already lead me to believe he's not the one. What to do?